I finally walked out of my house
without huge piles of snow, not a bit of ice, the wind was not blowing
at warp speed, the sun was shining In fact I was in a short sleeved tee
shirt.I was going out! Believe me that was huge for me, its been a long
winter in more ways than one.
I
was on my way to meet up with cousins and go visit one of the aunts and
her daughter. Aunt Alice lives in an assisted living apartment, she
is a lively old gal with a huge problem, her blood sugar will not stay
where It belongs so she is being monitored constantly. I can tell you
though if you need family history she is sharp as a tack.
Well
I met up with cousin Don and cousin Karen, no matter how long its been
since we have seen each other, we pick up where we left off. We stopped
at the family cemetery on the way to the aunts. Walking between the
graves of grandparents ,parents, aunts, uncles is like seeing them in
person they are gone but not forgotten.
The
visit with the aunt and cousin from New Mexico was fun, memories, news,
our old age health problems and when are we going to see each other
again were the main topics.And the laughter what a joyous sound, who
says getting old isn't fun.
When
I got home i had a nice surprise oldest son called, he has been working
on his masters for a few years, while teaching school giving pottery
lessons, doing flea markets with his huge collection of high end
antique glassware, he is finally getting his Masters degree on May 11th
and wants me and his siblings there. This is the son that fought
everything a parent could ask of a child, but we all survived his
growing up years, even though I cried when he dropped out of high
school. He and his wife had four children and were struggling, they
managed to put her through nursing school ( she has been working at Mayo
Clinic for years), then he went to college for his teaching degree. Now
finally at age 52 he is getting his Masters and I will be there to
cheer.
We should
all be lucky enough to have those special days, when it is not earth
shaking but full of love of life. Today is nice, remembering the after
glow of yesterday.